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Sunday, August 4, 2019

Friends : More important than family

Hello readers,

A warm welcome on my page. Festive season has started and as soon as August comes, I get very excited. Reason for my happiness is first and most important is its my Birthday month and my birth date is 13th August. Just pen down this date on your phone as a reminder to wish me..Just kidding :-)
Other reason is most beautiful day comes in this month which is friendship day. I am really not sure about the reason why first sunday of August is celebrated as Friendship day as it is such a cute relationship which does not need any specific day to celebrate. Even one page of blog can not describe the beauty of this relationship. Friends can be made anywhere in school, in college, in office or even during travel. I had been an introvert girl and always used to think that people will judge me for my nature and never knew about the beauty of friendship until I met some good friends in my life who accepted me the way I am and made me happy and feel special always. I am blessed with these friends in my life.
The saying is indeed true that no bond is stronger than friendship. Friendship is a beautiful bond  where two different souls decided to walk through together without being judgemental about each other. I personally feel this relationship is far more better than being into a relationship with a lover.

Let me tell you my story. I have travelled to so many places in India because of my job. I had so many apprehensions for relocation but never knew God has already made waited some friends there for me who will make me comfortable and made my stay always rememberable.

When I initially relocate to Lucknow,I was so much afraid that being away from my family and parents, how would I be able to survive there as I didn't know even a single person at that place but the day I joined office, I met few gals who offered me to join them over a cup of tea. And from there our friendship grew. Initially we were three Rachana, Meenu and  Shweta but gradually that circle started growing even bigger when I had Saumya, Pankaj, Ankit all of them in this group. I used to suffer a lot for my food arrangement and they helped me out in such a easy way by providing the number of best tiffin services. We all used to share so much over a cup of coffee daily that I started loving my stay in Lucknow and I used to look forward to go to office to meet them and make memories with them. I was staying in a PG  and found Amity college girls there who used to look forward for me to come back from office and have fun. I did lot of masti with all those friends in Lucknow be it eating pani puri, watching movie, roaming in Patrakar market, sharma ji ki famous chai and treat in CCD very weekend. That was the time which I still remember and cherish.

Then time came to leave Lucknow with wet eyes and move to chennai. Who could ever think that being from north india, south india can also be a fun place to live. Places can be fun when we get friends there. I was haunting there for a place to stay and I got two girls to live with. We all three starting sharing our lives together. I used to look forward to talk to them as they made me feel happy by listening to my problems and providing solution to me whenever needed. Moumita and Tithi ,I spent beautiful days of my life with you. And even in office I found my colleagues who eventually became my friend. Rajesh. Swati, Kaushik, Vimal, Satya those were my friends in office. I used to work in early morning shift there and started having idlis in breakfast with them and a cup of filtered coffee. We all used to share so much together that we spare an hour daily from our life and used to reach office an hour before from our shift so that we can enjoy together . I am really blessed with lot of good friends in my life.

Then again relocation time came and I shifted to Noida. I met with a girl over net and asked her if she can help me with stay and guess what, we started living together in the same house. We both were tea addict and used to make tea's together and have them together. During that duration, we used to share our lives and never knew that we will be BFF's. A stranger can become important part of your life was never known to me before I got this true friend in my life. She is the one with whom I have shared my entire life and without being judgemental about myself. she has always helped me in my ups and downs. She is the one who knows everything about my past and present. and the best part is she has always advised me . We two never get bored talking to each other. We are so common in nature that its like two sisters born from different mother. Love you so much Pallavi

And last but not the least, there is one more Jhalli in my life, Shipra . She is such a carefree girl that she always call me to pass her time during her commute from office to home. we are friends since our childhood and share a special bond together. She makes me laugh when I feel low, makes me more happy when I am happy and gives me advice when I needed it the most.

 Lovers can leave you for your mistakes but friends will make you laugh for your mistake and teach you the good way to correct it. Best thing about friendship is "this relationship don't ask you to change yourself but accepts you will all the flaws of yours." At times, when parents are not near you or you can't disclose your problem with them, Friends are there. Thank you Akshay, Rajeev, Aakshi, Meraj, Devesh,Deepshikha and some others whose name I missed here. You guys are my lifeline.

Happy friendship day!!

With this signing off!!
Tada..

12 comments:

  1. One of the best blogs on friendship I ever read. I was smiling throughout. Lots of love:)

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  2. Nice read!! Full of emotions..

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  3. Amazing. First time understood that friends are actually more special then lovers.n you are so blessed to have friends from each corner of india. Reading this blog like living a live friendship life, which is actually perfect. Loved it very much. Thanks for sharing your precious memories with us.

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  4. 😍 n i'm one of those Amity gals..miss each n every moment of fun wid u Di.. love u😘 Happy Friendship Day!!

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  5. Shukla Mukhi your mom
    Very nice blog on friendship
    . very nicely written .Uare fortunate to have good friend s .keep.tying with them.God bless you all.keep it up
    . keep writing.

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  6. Hii reader, keep reading her blogs, she vl make you giggle in her upcoming blogs too.. Happy reading

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  7. Looks like that you have true friends in your life, always stay connected to them . As usually you have nicely articulated your thoughts with your own experience which is very important when you are sharing your feelings. Your view on true friendship means a lot in today world, when there is someone with whom you can share your joys and sorrow. Keep writing and stay blessed always

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  8. Friends are usually like oxygen to our lives... We feel dead when not in their company for long. The are fresh air for us and longer the association... Fresher the air... Better the friend... Also you can't make friends... Friendship happens but for that to happen you need to forget yourself... The blog covered all aspects of friendship and has been beautifully presented

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  9. Friend in need is a friend indeed!

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